First of all I wanna tell you guys that this time my story wasn’t mine. Few days ago I asked one of my best buddy to write me something about friendship from her point of view. I was expecting something in general but she wrote it personally about how she met me before we become bff.

I kinda pleased but slightly annoyed reading it because it make me reminiscing some precious funny moment we had gone through together. And, few early conflicts when I first met her 😌. Okay let me tell her story about “us” so sit back and relax.

That lady in the picture is my buddy (Tabitha) that I told you just now. She was married to a teacher, Kelvin. I am always afraid that we are mistaken as a couple but we’re not. Not at all. I’m not interested in someone else property okay? Oh let me get back to her story.

What is the meaning of friendship to you?

Friendship is something unique, bold and full of love.

Tabitha Tabby

Friendship is a strong bond between every person on the earth, regardless of age, race, gender, skin color, origin and etc. It is about knowing almost everything about someone and care about their well being, including their fav foods. But not trespassing their boundaries because friendship and looking for a life partner is a different thing.

She said we can have thousands of friends but only few will be chosen as a bff or buddies. She choose quality above quantity, so do I. I did have the same theory just like her. It is like sailing in a big ship together, in ups and down, will never failed us to get back to the shore as one.

How did we met? On 14th of January 2014, I was posted to a rural clinic named Long Miri. She was there and she is the most senior staff still exist 🤣. I arrived after 4-5 hours of rough road, being shook in a 4WD and then I was approached by unknown lady. She said “hi”. I remember that time my hand was full of stuff, head was dizzy so I didn’t really care about her. At that moment she said “Wtf, this boy sombong giler.” I wasn’t expecting that she judge someone being arrogant easily just by not replying her “hi” back.

Until now her first impression has high tendency to be negative towards new person she meet. So keep in mind, when you meet her, her expression might not be your cup of tea.

I still remember she asked me “kau dah pandai kerja di pedalaman? Gershwin dah ajar semua dekat kau?” on my first day of work!! Her face is not so welcoming, very rude and arrogant I’m telling you guys. In my mind, kau ingat di kolej, kami diajar management klinik? But I kept quiet I guess, I can’t remember. I’m not so fond with her that time because I dislike bad vibes, she always show her grumpy face whenever & anywhere she want at first I know her.

Omg if I wanna tell you in details, 4 years are long enough to write a book. To cut it short, days and months, until now it is my 4th years knowing her. We’re now best buddy, sharing the same hobbies, one of it is joining marathon together with her husband and our friends. Don’t worry, I changed her a lot. From a grumpy face lady into a smiley face (I hope so). A very thin person to a fit lady.

Psstt.. She said I always reminding her to be good to the community we serve. Treat them as they are your family. See guys I am a kind person as you think I am. You guys are correct!! 😎

She wrote a lot actually. I didn’t write exactly what she wrote and some of it I add my own memories to give a little pinch of salt on my side. You guys can read her original writings posted down below.

I’ll stop here for today, give me some Likes & sincere Comments below. Thank you byeee..

This picture was taken early this year at Long Miri. I am a sunset lover and will easily enchanted by its fascinating golden color. Walking around the village almost every evening with my buddy is one of our daily activity which will get me bump into some precious view for me to capture.

At one point when we came across a gorgeous sunset view along the row of houses, we stopped and took a few snap of photos. Oh, we did realised that one golden aged man was walking towards us from behind, on his way back from work. Purposely we involve him in the picture.

Back home when I was editing those pictures I was again caught by the sunset colors and the old man’s shadow creeping down. It creates a wonderful feeling, reminding me of the future, as if that old man is the old version of me while me infront is in the current time.

Whoever we are, we wont be able to escape from ageing unless you suffer from a disease that causes you to stunt. But I only know about a medical illness that cause rapid ageing (progeria) instead of stopping it. So guys get ready, enjoy your life by doing something good instead of wasting it. If you ever messed up, choose a proper solution to not regretting it but do it right bring yourself back to the track.

Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.

Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart .

Cherish all your happy moments; they make a fine cushion for old age.

Hi guys, my name is Zeck Anak Nyadang. Ya that is my full name. My friends call me Zeck, Capi, and you can call me “Zecky“. Don’t bother ask me why because you can tell that Zecky sounds cuter. 😅

My main purpose to start this blog is to share what I know, letting you guys see what I see, feels what I feels. Fyi, I will sometime posting ideas, stories and knowledge from my friends so bare in mind that not every writings are mine. I will give credit to them.

Not to forget that my writings will be written in mix language which is Malay & English. In hope that this blog will give us some great knowledge, information, ideas and experience through pictures which I captured in the moment.

I am very looking forward to every comments and responds from you guys regarding every writings in this simple blog.

So guys I am very excited to share with you guys my first ever writings in my first ever blog as soon as possible!! 😍